First of all, congratulations to all the Canadian athletes for an awesome Winter Olympics! The Canadians here were pretty excited! Even today, one of my students sent a text message of congratulations, although the Olympics have not really been on the radar here in Dubai at all.
We just finished our Spring I term, and I can honestly say that the countdown has begun. I have two more terms of work here. Hurray! This term was relatively uneventful, although I continued to struggle with absenteeism, cheating, immature students and a range of minor administrative disruptions. At the same time, I have come to absolutely love some of my students. I find them so genuinely warm and caring, some of the young women in particular.
Some of them are so sweet. For example, this Valentine’s Day, I was treated to a rose, balloons, a stuffed animal, a heart pillow and some candy. Of course, it was immediately after I had just finished thinking to myself, “I never want to see this class again!”. Classic! And to tell the truth, I am finding the heart pillow to be really comfortable for that sore neck that I’ve been complaining about!!!
But you know, teaching is like that. It is like a family. You are stuck with each other, and you have good days and you have bad days, but you get through them and everything works out in the end.
As for Valentine’s Day itself, I didn’t do anything special. I went to the movies on the weekend to see that movie Valentine’s Day, which was very funny. I also went to the beach. A funny thing did happen there… (no not me spying on the good-looking guy near me or the Indian guy hitting on the two German girls!!!) Actually, after spending several hours on the beach, I decided to go to the Mercato for a light dinner. I went to PAUL, which has lovely cafe style food and great bread. So, there I was. I sat by myself, eating my quiche and salad and reading, and a few seats down there was a lady with a very large neck brace, dining with what appeared to be her daughter. Her daughter left the table briefly, so the lady struck up a conversation with me.
“Are you Lebanese?” she asked. No I said, but “Marahaba” (Hello). “How do you know Marhaba?” she asked me, ” It is such a beautiful word and people here usually say “Assalamu alaykum” . By saying Marhaba, I think I became her new best friend. According to one web source: Merhaba means to be wide, open and spacious, and therefore also welcoming. It literally means to welcome, from the verb meaning to be “open and warm and welcoming” to someone or something. Some say that Merhaba is is used more by Christians, as Muslims have a specific Islamic greeting that they generally use.
“Assalamu alaykum”means literally “Peace be with you” and “Peace be upon you”, and Muslims use that greeting very often when they meet others. You could say in Arabic “Marhaba”, “Halla”,”Ahlan” which mean “Hello”, but when you use “Assalamu alaykum” it gives the greeting a more formal Muslim tone. The reply to it is “wa alaykum as’salaam” or “aleykum al salam” ( God be with you too).”Ahlan wa sahlan” is also used for “welcome” when someone comes to your home. The English translation literally is ” you are in your family on a ground without stumbling stones.”
Anyway, I digress. This elderly lady from Lebanon (here visiting her daughter since Lebanon is cold right now) proceeded to talk to me about Lebanon, war, the Palestinians,Israel, peace and “can’t we all just get along?” When her daughter returned she told me that she had thought that I must be from Canada or the US since I was READING ,and that the women around here only want to shop. She gave me her card; she is a landscape architect living in Dubai, and she encouraged me to call her to go out for coffee sometime…seemingly very happy to have met a reader.
“But watch out for my Mother,” she said…”I think she wants my brother to get married!!! ” OK! GOOD TO KNOW! Then as they were leaving, she turned around and shouted back to me, “Are you single?” “Yes”, I said. Well…”HALAS”, (Arabic for finished/done/over) she said, “No more!”
Yikes…maybe there was a reason I lost her card!! You know I have quite a history with the Lebanese!!!
Anyway, last weekend was also quite fun. Although no potential marriage prospects, I did spend some time with my students and colleagues and on my own…let’s see if I can remember some of the highlights. I’ve thrown in some photos from the web, but I also just uploaded my own photos onto Facebook.
THURSDAY
Well, one of the Sheikhs died recently, so there was a 3 day period of mourning and school was cancelled last Thursday. Elizabeth and I decided to go out for Sumo Sushi at a mall on Jumeirah Beach Road. It is some of the best sushi I’ve ever had.
That evening I went to a place called Global Village with one of my former students and two of her friends. I had been out with them before to a small shisha restaurant, apparently frequented by Arab celebrities, and we had made arrangements to hit GV before it finished. GV is like a large international amusement park. Each country has a pavilion and they sell souvenirs, food, clothes etc. from their country. There is also a stage for entertainment, a carnival area and street performers. However, I did hear that some people got arrested for dancing in the streets of GV. I guess that’s not something we do here in Dubai…I’d better be careful! I’ve been known to dance down the aisles of supermarkets or in the stereo section of a department store!
Anyway, after fighting some evening traffic and passing the time by singing along with a favourite Iranian singer, we spent four hours winding our way through each building and doing some shopping. I bought some sweet little Turkish, hand painted bowls as farewell gifts for my colleagues. I also bought a couple of cute things in the African building: a stone heart, a stone carved hippo, a hat and a doll. We also drank a tiny but strong and sweet cup of Ethiopian coffee.
My students are Iranian, so we spent a very nice time in that building. There are lots of Iranians in the UAE and they have a long intertwined history with the Arab nations of the Gulf; Iran is literally just across the Strait of Hormuz. There is currently a dispute about “The Gulf”, which has become very strategic and a potential new source of oil. My students are always impressing on me that the name is “The Persian Gulf”, which is what I have always thought. However, it seems that in this region, very slowly, the name is shifting and it is being called the Arabian Gulf by the Arab nations. Hmmmm.
I must say the Persian Carpets are truly amazing and I was really tempted to buy one…but didn’t…maybe before I leave. We also ate a cupful of pomegranate seeds, which was so refreshing. I have heard that the pomegranate is a very important fruit here. I know it is mentioned in many religions, and in fact, it may actually be the fruit of the tree of life, not the apple.
In Islam: “The heavenly paradise of the Koran describes four gardens with shade, springs, and fruits including the pomegranate. Legend holds that each pomegranate contains one seed that has come down from paradise. Pomegranates have had a special role as a fertility symbol in weddings among the Bedouins of the Middle East. A fine specimen is secured and split open by the groom as he and his bride open the flap of their tent or enter the door of their house. Abundant seeds ensure that the couple who eat it will have many children. “
I guess if you eat a pomegranate, you can’t waste any of the seeds…just in case, it’s the one from heaven.
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By 11:30 pm, it was time to go and my students were suggesting dinner at a kebab place. I, of course, was not really up for a kebab at that time and had them drive me home. I suspect they went home too. I think they just felt that they had to offer me dinner.
FRIDAY
The next morning,I was picked up by a CUD colleague (Head of architecture) for a drive to Fujairah. Fujairah is another emirate and it is on the east coast of the country. It is different because it is less built up with more rocky mountains and fewer sandy dunes.
My colleague had rented a red VW EOS convertible for the drive…now that’s style We drove through Dubai and headed out to Sharjah and Fujairah. It was amazing to see the scenery and the temperature change, and he was a great guide.
Finally, we hit the coast and decided to take a swim. The water was a little cool and rather wavy, but not too bad. Unfortunately, after about 10 minutes of wave jumping, the Sharjah Beach Police rolled in and blew their whistle. Apparently, I was not dressed appropriately. Women at the beach have to be fully covered. I was wearing my standard black one piece bathing suit. OOPS! Sharjah is currently a lot more conservative than Dubai (babes in bikinis on my local beach). Apparently, it never used to be that way, but several years ago, KSA (The Kingdom of Saudi Arabia) invested lots of money in Sharjah and suddenly there was a mosque on every corner and women had to cover up…money talks and Saudi money is conservative. Oh well, I jumped into the car, changed my clothes and we headed to the Hilton for lunch. We continued the drive up the coast and into Oman a little before heading home. By 6ish, I was home, salty and sunburned.
SATURDAY
The next day, I did lots of little things. I went to my local gym. I was getting bored with the school gym, so I joined the one at the Chelsea Hotel, which has a lovely rooftop pool. I’ve got a three month membership so I hope it keeps me motivated to exercise. It’s only a 5 minute walk from home. I also saw the movie Blind Side with Sandra Bullock. I thought it was a good one. I’ve been reading a lot lately too. I have not bothered to have the satellite in my room reconnected when it went out this time. I was getting hooked on crap TV. Instead I am reading more and making significant inroads into my stack of books. Right now , I am reading the book “Sunset Oasis” by the famous author Bahaa Taher. It is about an Egyptian military man who takes a posting at the Siwa Oasis. He is accompanied by his Irish wife. I’m not sure what is going to happen but I think it will be something good. I am about a third of the way through.
And of course, every Saturday (and Tuesday), I have my salsa class. I think I am getting better. I still have been too shy to head out to the salsa parties at the hotels, although our instructor has been encouraging us. However, I must say that after every salsa class I FEEL GOOD! Maybe its the achievement or the endorphins, or the music. I don’t know. But it is fun to dance and I am so glad that I am doing it!
The salsa classes are at DUCTAC, which is located at the back of the Mall of the Emirates. It is fun to go there; always lots of people. I like riding the Metro too. On this day, during the ride home on the Metro at around 10:30 pm., there was a lovely interaction between a little Arab girl (1 year old) and a little Indian girl (4 years old). They began with a slight struggle over a cute purse belonging to the older girl. What woman does like a new handbag!!! Well, we thought it would end in tears, but then the two mothers each told their child to give the other girl the purse…and they did. The four year old gave it to the 1 year old…and waited…and watched. The one year old inspected it and then promptly gave it back, clapped her hands with glee and started laughing. Actually, we all started laughing…an international incident had been avoided. Well, it became a game, and they gave that purse to each other, back and forth, back and forth, about 30 times!!! And each time, almost every woman on the “Women’s Car” of the Dubai Metro, from about a dozen different countries, CHEERED…30 times! Our little girls can solve their problems. Our little girls can share. All is right with in world!
SUNDAY
Sunday is actually “Monday” to those on the western timetable, so I go back to work. There wasn’t too much on the agenda since classes are not in session right now. Basically, we just finished up marking and posted the final grades. I did, however, have my weekly yoga class. This week, there were only two of us. After kicking the badminton players out of the gym and having a bit of a chat, we started. Yoga stretches muscles that I didn’t know I had in ways that I didn’t think were possible. I am really enjoying it. At the end, I feel a real sense of achievement and so relaxed. On this day, about 30 minutes into the session, right in the middle of the Warrior Pose, the door of the gym swung open. We had posted a sign to keep the students out so we quickly looked over, at the ready to eject the “fool” who couldn’t read. Who could it be? Well, it was our university president, touring some VIPs around the campus. He looked a little perplexed/bemused and paused for a full 10-15 eternal seconds (remember, this is a Muslim country). Anyway, we all grinned, he raised a hand in salute and re-routed his entourage. After he left, we girls laughed, and I commented he was really lucky…because we were just seconds away from a Downward Dog!!
Warrior Pose
Downward Dog
So that was my weekend! They are not all so action-packed, but invariably something is on the go. This week, I have a shopping and lunch outing with Sadia, and next weekend, Kelley and I are presenting at TESOL Arabia. If I keep busy, I think the time will fly. Life is pretty good really…now if I could only get rid of my insomnia!!
The Insomnia Fairy
That’s it for now. I’ll try and write again soon.
PS. I have added a link to some photos of Global Village on FB